Does everyone require a fertility consultation?
No. A majority of couples will conceive shortly after they consciously start trying. Others will conceive unexpectedly, even when they aren’t really ready.
It is a difficult realisation that you are not able to conceive for a reasonable period of time, even when others around you are getting pregnant! As soon as you become aware of a delay in conception, you should immediately consider having an initial consultation.
What should prompt couples to consult?
For young couples with no clearly apparent problems, waiting for about a year prior to the initial consultation is usually advised. Older couples, well above the mid-30s should seek help sooner. If there are obvious problems, like irregular periods, help should also be sought sooner.
Who should be consulted?
Your regular gynecologist should suffice as the initial point of contact. You may end up requiring simple advice and reassurance. However, some couples will require basic evaluation and testing. Simple remedies may be recommended.
Complex fertility problems will require referral to a fertility specialist. But there is no harm in having your initial consultation with a fertility specialist.
The social stigma associated with infertility may subconsciously delay you from seeking help. It is better to accept that there might be a problem, and get this addressed sooner than later. Women tend to make the initial steps in seeking fertility help, but it is always advisable that both partners attend a fertility consultation together.
