Fertility consultations are stressful for most couples. It is best that you adequately prepare for your initial consultation, keeping in mind that fertility consultations take longer than a regular doctor’s visit.
Both partners should come to the clinic together. Bring along all the results of any previous tests done and summaries of previous related procedures. If you have already undergone fertility treatment elsewhere, bring a summary of this as well, regardless of whether or not it was successful.
Give a detailed account of your reproductive history; everything matters. Then allow the doctor to ask for clarifications and review all your previous results.
Your diagnosis might be immediately apparent, or you may be asked to undergo some additional evaluations. Either way, an immediate recommendation should be made.
It’s now time for you to ask questions:
- Why are additional tests required? Note that some tests and scans, like hormone profiles and ultrasound scans, require to be updated over time. Not all tests and scans need to be repeated.
- What is the most appropriate treatment for me? And are there other options? Treatment options are personalised; what suits others may not suit you.
- What is my predicted success rate? Individual success rates are different from overall statistical success rates commonly reported by clinics.
- How much will the treatment cost? And why? You need to know this so you can budget appropriately.
- Am I with the right team? You should do your homework before coming for a consultation, but there is no harm in confirming with the fertility team that you have selected the best.
Ask anything else that you feel is relevant. This is not an exhaustive list.
You should leave feeling assured. If not, your options are to return for a review or to go elsewhere.
